Wednesday, 31 December 2014

The Long lost and Forgotten: Lahore



When the honking of the horns have destroyed your ear-drums, the smoke of the vehicles and nearby chimneys have clogged your air passage, when the dust is successful in bringing tears in your eyes and in the midst of all the hue and cry, if through the haze and smog, you manage to see four red-brick minarets; you have set your feet in Lahore.


Lahore, the cultural and educational heart of Pakistan. (As it is primarily called.) The city cannot stop itself from flaunting about its rich culture and history. The old, weary and rustic walls of the old (walled) city narrate their happenings with a bleak smile stretched across their faces; silenced by the tumult of their inhabitants and their professions in the nearby vicinity, the walls shed tears of despondency and hopelessness.



  The city has enfolded the mighty Lahore fort and the kaleidoscopic Badshahi and Wazir Khan Mosques within its realms, who narrate their own legacies to thirsty eyes and craving ears. 




Apart from the awe-inspiring structures the city hosts within its realms, the city is also home to perhaps the most horrendous aristocratic love story of all time, the anecdote of Prince Salem and Anarkali. As legend states; their love still lives in the hearts of the lovers who flock to Anarkali’s mausoleum on Lower Mall.





Not too far away from this dome of love, Lahore unfolds a narrative from a different era; “The Age of the British”.




From the Lahore High Court to the archives of the Lahore Museum, from the Government College to the once bustling Tollinton Market, each structure on Mall Road introduces itself from an anomalistic retrospective, mutually sharing and keenly holding onto their anecdotes of the British Raj.



As once, mighty and enlightened the people of this city were. Lahore, with every passing day is losing its literati essence.

The city which was once famous for its gardens and was nicknamed ‘The City of Gardens’ in the Mughal era, now resembles a dumpster in the crass era of commercialism; so lovingly given the moniker: ‘Paris of the East’.

The rain which brought life to the flora and fauna of the city now brings death to its inhabitants.   



A city which boasted about its ‘educated’, ‘enlightened’ and ‘learned’ masses in now governed by a gang of charlatans. Educational institutions which promised a secure future have now become a base camp for student politics and a picnic spot.





It is rather saddening to be a witness to such a heinous crime: the death of a nation’s culture, norms and values, all because of our ignorance.

As Imam Ali (A.S.) said:

Our enemies are not the Jews or the Christians, our enemy is our own ignorance."

Tuesday, 23 December 2014

Dreams….yet another mystery?!

What are dreams? This is a common question that haunts every enlightened being who searches for his ‘true’ self in today’s materialistic World.

Are dreams what our mind envisions when we are asleep? Or, are they our perception of our lives. Whatever they are, they have not failed to haunt man even in the quantum leap of the 21st Century. These dubious creatures never fail to leave us awestruck; seldom they give us a ray of hope. At times they question us and at times give our lives a new meaning.



Dreams make me chuckle, personally; I find them ironical! I have always perceived them as deluders. All night long one is kept in the picture-perfect world of hope and contentment, upon the opening of the eye; the harsh brutalities and realities of this grueling World have to be endured.

Their spell does not wear away here, many a times day dreaming spoils our day. Doesn’t it? One’s day to day life becomes daunting the moment our mind starts to daydream. From a very subtle life, one sets a foot in a World which does not belong to him or perhaps never shall! Dreams tend carry them away from the candid reality and act as a powerful-addictive drug!

Ironically, dreams act as a ray of hope; they give a person the bleakest of hope, bringing their “American” or “London” dreams more close to them. But at what cost, that; fate decides!

Very often, I am haunted by the words ‘destiny’, ‘fate’, ‘fortune’ and etc, and why should not I be? They very mischievously rattle with one’s precious life but also tinker with one’s inner self! It forces you to contemplate over reality and cruelly cripple our dreams under their weight. And no sooner than later, our destiny intrudingly   poses a question on our lives; “What I dreamt of… what is really mine to live? Was I worth it? Have I not learned lessons from my life? Do I yet again, have to be deceived by the hands of fate?”



All these questions become one’s nightmare and forcibly leave one heartbroken. All of our ascetic desires come crippling down before our very own eyes. Very often we are hushed by the phrase’ “You can’t fight with your fate, but you can change your destiny!” As ironical it may seem, but this is a dismal reality of life. A rainbow is seen but that too disappears just as soon this World shows its’ true colours.

All said, one cannot deny the power of dreams; for they give hope, a desire; a desire to live and strive to turn the impossible in a possibility! What Mr. M.A. Jinnah had envisioned seventy years back, we live it today. Man dreamt of stepping on the moon someday and finally on July 21, 1969, Neil Armstrong lived it. Then again, the most sullen part, we dream for years and they end in a short while.

Again, one is left to dream; and why not! It is only hope that makes one go on in life!





Friday, 5 December 2014

My Pakistani Rishtadaars...

“Tring! Tring!” the phone bell continuously rings for two-minutes.
“Who is in such a state of desperation to talk to you, Mum?” I inquired rather irritatingly. “Oh! Wait, since today is the result day. There must be an overly concerned and worrisome ‘rishatdaar’ of ours at the other 
end of the phone.

 How many of us have not fallen a victim of such situations? Being Pakistani, I reckon most of us have usually in one phase or the other. Haven’t we?

Being a Pakistani has its own privileges, we get to relish ourselves with the summery delicacy of the mangoes. Mother Nature has blessed this ‘Land of Pure’ with numerous bounties, to start off:  the wide array of topography spreading form the Arabian Sea to the Himalayas, the local produced culinary fiestas and much more!

But, then come the people. In order to give us an identity we have been divided in to families (call it accident or birth or whatever you feel like!)  Where the real roller coaster rides begins and we begin our journeys as Pakistanis.

You must have guessed it by now I am paying tribute to no one other than our rishtadaars (relatives) in this article…. Yes! You’re read it correctly “Tribute to Rihstadaars”. After all they deserve it, as they excel in sparking the lightest of moments that fate has to offer and make sure they watch the entire show as the lava erupts.

“Oh! Acha, tum ne suna, us kay bate kp job milgaye?!”
(Oh! Have you heard that her son has found a job?)

“Bachare Munazzah ki talaq ho gaye… Bhaiya bohat pareshan hai!”
(Poor Munazzah has just got divorced, My brother is extremely worried.)

“Suna Tumne? Jaffat kay bĂȘte ka MIT mein admission ho gaya hai.”
(Have you heard? Jafar’s son got admitted to MIT.)

Now, most of you must have guessed of whom was I referring to. Yes! You’ve got it right. We all have this one highly alert lady in the family who has an eagle’s eye on all the happenings within the family. When I say ‘all’, I mean it! Every family has their own pet names for such respectable ladies, ranging from “Express News” to “BBC”.

“Haye! Haye! Bete ji, yeh tum ne kya pehna hua hai?”
(Oh my God! What in the world are you wearing, child?)

“Yeh tum sara din mobile peh kya tuk tuk lage rathe hon? Koi chakkar toh nai tumahara?”
(What do you do all day long on your mobile phone? Are you involved with someone?)

“Who bachi pathka hai, bohat badtameez hai!”
(That girl is bluntly straight forward, she is extremely rude!)

Yup, you’re right! The judgmental aunties… We all are blessed with her auspicious presence wither in the shape of a phupo (paternal aunt) or khala (maternal aunt). The lady HAS to object to anything that comes forth her, but she will defetinaly raise a voice against something that does not concern her!

“Us ki doosri beti bohat pyari or budhu hai, uska rishta mango apne bĂȘte kay liye.”
(Ask for her second daughter’s hand in marriage with your son, she’s pretty and a fool!)

“O! Beta is condition mein is tarah bahi bathatye, bache kay liye acha nahi hota.”
(O! child, you should never sit in such a posture it’s extremely unhealthy for the developing fetus.)

“1/2 kg doodh mein 2 spoon haldi daloor use boil karo or rooz subah nihaar pate peu. Patli ho gayo gi.”
(In ½ kg milk add 2 tablespoons of turmeric powder bring the mixture to boil and drink it for a few days, you’ll lose weight like anything!”)

The Advisory Aunties, her advises will be available to you on anything or anywhere, just muster up the courage and call her up and you’ll see the magic. Her recommendations will be freely available to a pregnant bahu (daughter in law) or the bride-to-be niece. Trust me, she’s got it all covered!

The uncles are not too far behind in the league, they know how to do their duties and they do it remarkably.

“Beta jab mein Berger meain that, waha paison ke bearish hoti thi”
(When I worked in Berger, Money poured their like cats and dogs.)

“1973 mein jab mein US gaya tha, waha peh mein President Nixon say mila tha…(gives his wild laugh) hum ne saath mein cigar pee thi.”
(When I visited the US in 1973, I met President Nixon there, we shared a cigar..hahaha)

Yup, the narcissist uncle. Someone who never gets tired of telling us his God-knows-how-old anecdotes. His names vary from Kahany-wale (story teller) uncle to Tape-recorder.

Another personality that most of us are blessed with…

“Beta, mein har kisi to meahwara nahi deta, abb sun lo meri.”
(Son, I do not advise every other person, just listen to me!)

“Haan! Haan! Woh ajj kal SSP hai. Mara bohat acha dost hai. Hum college mein saath thay.”
(Oh Yes!Yes! Hes a confidante of mine, we were in college together. He’s an SSP now.)

Bus use ek call kar do, aur mera naam lena, tumhara kaam bus youh ho gaye ga! (snaps his fingers)”
(Just call him up, take myname and your work will be done in no time at all!)

Yup, the know-it –all uncle. The uncle who knows everyone and everything. As a piece of advice, do not disrespect him, he might come handy. ;)

My friends, do not ponder over what people have to say. They'll always have something to say because:





 Therefore my advise to all:














Thursday, 27 November 2014

No Pain, No Gain....

"No pain, No Gain." Only a few days ago, I summarized my entire life in this one wholesome, meaningful proverb.

Like every Tom, Dick and Harry, all I ever did was complain. Of all the healthy activities in which I could invest time and energy, I wasted my resources in whining.

All day long, I perturbed the people around me; my intimates and family (usually my mother). fell victims to my ungraciousness. I did not even spare God from my perpetual pleadings.

My prayers were not prayers, they were a whining ordeal. I had surrounded my self in a cocoon of selfishness, I was never in content with my life: an aura of pessimism had engulfed me.

It was on Thursday, 13th November 2014 when I fell sick and my life took a turn. That day I truly realized how life has its own designs to teach us a callous yet a consequential lesson.

I fell seriously ill, vomited several times during the night, felt dizzy all the time. I walked as I were a drunk! I remained on IVs for a few days thus, had to wear a canola on my right hand, partially handicapping me. Trivial activities had become a grueling tribulation. Complications ranging from using the toilet to eating using my left hand became painstaking.
It was during this period that my mom gave me a bath and I realized how ungracious I was to her.

I had to pay visits to the hospital twice a day and that experience changed my insight. I often thought that God was unkind to me, not blessing me enough. In the hospital I witnessed the paramedic staff working tirelessly to aid the ailing patients.

Once, while an IV was being injected to me, I was lying on the bed, busy contemplating about my approach to life when suddenly I heard a young boy's wail. The boy had fallen down from the stairs and had injured himself, his head was bleeding.

Since the curtain was drawn, I could only listen to the child and envision him. Even in the midst of such pain and agony that boy chuckled and prayed to Jesus.

Another such event moved me, even now as I recall that incident as it vividly repaints it self on the canvas in my mind. A young boy of a tender age of five or perhaps six, the poor lad was suffering from asthma. The friendly nurse asked him, what he'd like to do when he'll grow up? The boy earnestly replies, " I'd like to be preach my religion when I grow up because, my religion is a religion of peace, it is not what is perceived of it."
The boy's answer astounded me, it was well beyond his age.

This is what life can make of you; it takes away innocence and teaches you another less colorful yet a meaningful lesson.

Tuesday, 11 November 2014

A Poem

Life is not life,
When a prayer is not said to you.

Life is not life,
When a tear is not shed from his eye.

Life is not life,
When this heart breaks.

Life is not life,
When this soul does not feel lonely.

Life is not life,
When dreams are shattered.

Life is not life,
When it seeks your mercy.

Life is not life,
When it longs your presence

Life is not life,
When you show a ray of hope.

Life is not life,
When this filthy world shows its true colors.

Life is not life,
When you make your presence prominent.

Life is not life,
When you’re thought does not occur.

Life is not life,
When you dispose and propose plans.

Life is not life,
With a day spent without your thought.

Life is not life,
With a hope not broken

Life is not life,
When this heart bleeds

Life is not life,
When these eyes shed never ending tears

Life is not life,
When this soul is drawn away for this body.

Life is not life,
When this mind longs for an answer.

Life is not life,

With your presence not felt….

Monday, 10 November 2014

An Open Letter to Rimsha Farooq









Dear Rimsha,

“They have taken you away from us but failed to tear your memory.”

It has been five days since you left us in a state of bewilderment and ever since, a moment has not passed by when you visit us: your laughs, your jokes and your voice all cling to my mind every now and then.
Rimsha… We got acquainted through Palwasha; your elder sister and my confidante.  But now, when I look back it was never an arduous ordeal for you to become friends with anyone. Your smile did the charm!

For a short while, you served under me as the Blue House Captain in the Student Council and believe me, the level of responsibility, sincerity and maturity displayed by you was well beyond your years. I wish you could hear me say that. Alas!

The day I first saw you, repaints itself on a canvas in my mind. It was in the hot, scorching summer heat of Lahore in the month of April; you were bustling with your peers indulged in “Pakran Pakrai” (Hide n Seek).
An aura of magnanimity always surrounded you, but, what drew my attention towards you was your “tomboy-ish” demeanor.  It was an anomaly to see a girl like you in all girl institution.

Your hair trimmed perfectly in ‘Afro-style’, your sleeves all rolled-up, your sash… simply hang around your neck, you did not care much about it. Your blue cap: you wore it in your signature style, turned backwards.
Was it just me or many girls felt the same way, will now remain a mystery…  It seemed an oddity to have you among us because I perceived you as a boy!  You even talked like one! But underneath that boyish ‘exterior’ of yours lay the heart of an angel.

Whenever, Palwasha was in pain, she ran to you and poured her heart out. Her head resting on your shoulder and you stood there consoling her.
O! How much I envied Palwasha, God had blessed her with a beautiful soul in you. Both of you were a perfect duo:  Palwasha being the volatile one; whilst you, the rational one.

Unfortunately; that could not last for more than sixteen years. The fateful evening of 2nd November 2014 arrived and you departed from this world forever, leaving us in despair.

My friend let me assure you, we are proud of you. You always wanted to be a martyr and God granted your wish on the eve of 9th Muharram, when you died in the Wagah border bomb-blast.

Today, you do not live among us but in your short life span, you earned a special place for yourself in our hearts, your undaunting spirit and courage are beyond the reach of any terrorist.

With every passing day, I yearn for your jokes and chuckles. This heart bleeds deeper and redder for you.

Love,

Hareem